Rory Cardin


I hope to find a donor so I can have a more normal life and be able to see my niece grow up.

Hello my name is Rory Cardin. I am 34 years old. I have had kidney disease my whole life. Initially I had been diagnosed when I was born, my left kidney failed to develop properly due to cysts and ended up being reabsorbed into the body. My right kidney also developed some cysts but kept on keeping along and keeping me alive until 2020 when it finally succumbed to the damage the cysts had done and I needed to start dialysis.

But my disease does not define me. I enjoy drawing and painting and other forms of artistic expression. I love film and storytelling through reading novels and books. I work as a dispatcher for AAA Northeast and have had this job for almost ten years now. I have been able to maintain full time even with the illness but it has been difficult. I want to keep working, and I enjoy what I do.

I recently got to see my niece be born into the world and while I do not have children of my own seeing her grow in the past few months I’ve known her has been incredible and I want to see her grow further.

I try not to let the disease get in the way but it does have its impacts on my life, namely with the dialysis treatment. I cannot express how much different I feel thanks to the dialysis but being attached to a machine for 12 hours a day can be grueling.

I have had to miss some vacations and put off other trips due to the complexity of travel with my equipment.

I miss late nights around the kitchen table while family and friends play board games - now my nights are early so I can be on the machine. Scheduled and rigid. Gone is the spontaneity.

The basic freedom of not being attached to a machine. The energy increase I feel from dialysis would only improve, I would imagine, with a working, living kidney.

A transplant would mean the world to me and also to my family.

This all means I need your help. I need to get my message to as many people as will read it. I need my friends and family to share this. I need their friends and family to share this… hopefully the message can be seen far and wide enough to make it to the right person who can help me.

Together we can find a donor.

“It's like in the great stories, Mr. Frodo. The ones that really mattered. Full of darkness and danger they were. And sometimes you didn't want to know the end. Because how could the end be happy? How could the world go back to the way it was when so much bad had happened? But in the end, it’s only a passing thing, this shadow. Even darkness must pass. A new day will come. And when the sun shines it will shine out the clearer. Those were the stories that stayed with you. That meant something, even if you were too small to understand why. But I think, Mr. Frodo, I do understand. I know now. Folk in those stories had lots of chances of turning back, only they didn’t. They kept going, because they were holding on to something. That there is some good in this world, and it's worth fighting for.”
J.R.R. Tolkien


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